How to Choose the Perfect Diamond Shape for Your Partner’s Hand
You’ve decided to propose (congrats!) — and now comes the fun part: choosing the perfect ring.
But once you start looking at diamonds, you’ll quickly notice something… they come in a lot of shapes. Round, oval, emerald, pear, cushion — it’s enough to make your head spin.
So how do you know which one will look best on your partner’s hand?
At Doland Jewelers, we help customers make this decision every day. Here’s what to consider — and how to make it easy.
💎 First: What Are the Main Diamond Shapes?
Here are the most popular shapes we carry in-store:
- Round – Timeless and brilliant, this is the most classic choice.
- Oval – Elegant and elongating; still trending strong in 2025.
- Cushion – A romantic, pillow-shaped stone with vintage charm.
- Emerald – Sleek, step-cut, and sophisticated.
- Radiant – The sparkle of a round with a rectangular outline.
- Princess – Square and bold, with lots of fire.
- Pear – A teardrop shape that elongates the finger.
- Marquise – Dramatic and slimming, with a football-like shape.
- Heart – Whimsical and bold; not for the shy.
Not sure what your partner prefers? Don’t worry — we can help you narrow it down in minutes.
✋ Matching Diamond Shapes to Hand Types
Here’s a general guide based on hand and finger shape:
👱♀️ Petite Hands
- Best shapes: Round, oval, pear, or heart
- Why: Softer, elongated shapes won’t overwhelm smaller fingers
🖐️ Long Fingers
- Best shapes: Emerald, marquise, radiant
- Why: Rectangular and narrow shapes look balanced and elegant
🧤 Wide or Shorter Fingers
- Best shapes: Oval, cushion, round
- Why: Rounded and elongated shapes help visually lengthen the finger
🎯 Want Something Unique?
- Shapes like marquise, asscher, or pear are eye-catching and less commonly worn, perfect for someone who wants to stand out.
Of course, this is just a guide — the best shape is the one that fits your partner’s style and feels like them.
🔁 Try Before You Buy — With Zero Pressure
Here's the good news: at Doland’s, we carry all major diamond shapes — and if we don’t have the exact one you want, we can overnight it in with zero commitment to buy.
Yes, really.
You don’t need to guess. You don’t need to settle.
You can see diamonds side-by-side, compare them in person, and get honest guidance without pressure.
We hear this all the time:
“I was jumping between websites for days… I should’ve just come here first. You made it so easy.”
🛠️ Still Not Sure? Let’s Talk Custom
Maybe you’re dreaming up something unique — like an oval center with a hidden halo, or a cushion-cut in a yellow gold vintage-style setting. Whatever your vision is, our in-house design team can help you build it.
And we’ll never push you toward something that doesn’t feel right. We’re here to guide, not sell.
👋 Come See the Shapes for Yourself
No online chart or filter can compare to seeing the real thing in person — especially with a friendly expert by your side.
Visit us at Doland Jewelers in Dubuque or Davenport and try on different shapes, compare lab-grown vs. natural diamonds, and see why so many first-time shoppers say:
“This was easier than I expected — and way more fun.”
💍 Ready to Find The One?
Schedule a no-pressure appointment or stop by anytime.
We’ll help you find a diamond that fits her hand, your budget, and your story.
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